First and Foremost...and Then These: Part One

You might be wondering about the title of this post. Sounds like the advice we are all given at some point in our own lives. “Take care of your responsibilities first” or “Put first things first” In some form or another I'm willing to bet most of us has been told something like this by those who care about us the most. Here, I want to take this wisdom and propose a not-so-new spin on this responsibility as it relates to targeted individuals. “First and Foremost”----is what I want to call this new responsibility, and it is what I am in the process of learning how to make it a new habit of mine. “First and Foremost” will become my first priority in my life as a targeted individual. It is just plain necessity now, commonsense in my opinion for TI's until the covert harassment stops. There is no more taking for granted this seemingly simple advice. In fact I hope that you, the Targeted Individual take what I say here to heart, make it your own with your heart, soul, and hope still intact. There is nothing to fear in this responsibility here, in fact I believe it will help you suffer less in the long run if you make this your own. I believe understanding “First and Foremost” will save you all kinds of heartache and pain as you try to live as best a life as you can in these circumstances, which for too many TI's (targeted individuals) of Organized Stalking and/or Electronic Harassment is now for life.

“First and Foremost” means simply to understand this: Organized Stalking and Electronic Harassment is, first and foremost, an attempt to covertly destroy your life and is a covert attack on your life as well as every single aspect of it. This is all you need to know when it comes to your life and these crimes right now, including any street theater, slander campaigns, mobbing in the workplace, electronic harassment (especially here) and any other crimes. First and Foremost means words of the perps mean nothing, while on the other hand, their actions mean everything. And that is all you need to see to understand what the intention of these crimes are. And, most importantly, First and Foremost means the very nature of these two crimes alone is all the reason you need to both remember and live this very idea: that you are a human being, you do not deserve what is being done to you, you have every right to your emotions, your feelings, your own life, your own mind and the right to your own being. You are full within your rights to pursue happiness, do what you can and must do to live your life as well and happily as you can, and to do this with no regard for those who do not want you to. And here, my personal opinion when it comes to the perpetrators of the Electronic Harassment and/or Organized Stalking is that unless those who participated do not anymore and you can obviously see this for yourself, “First and Foremost” is all you need to understand about the perpetrators of these crimes. First things first, and live well. That is your new responsibility. Please do.

I will be adding to this idea as my own experience of both organized stalking and electronic harassment continues to both tell me more about the seriousness of these crimes and I use my experiences of these crimes to come up with what I hope to be useful methods for both coping with, bringing exposure to, and living a good life in spite of being a target of multiple stalkers and a target of electronic harassment.

Okay, I want to end on a lighter note. I've been all about media, music and writing on this blog so far as a means to communicate messages I hope bring you hope. Just a heads-up, I'm big on artistic expression, so you may be seeing a lot of artistic expressions of the perspectives of hope, joy, happiness, love, and healing for those who are targets of organized stalking and/or electronic harassment. So here is both the music video for "Uprising" by Muse and the Lyrics (opens in a new window from Lyrics.com). I think a little of your story may be somewhere in this song.
*Disclaimer: I do not own any part of this song or the video and not even the band itself. All is theirs, I own none of it and claim no ownership of it.*









I'd suggest using this one to let out any anger you have right now, with any healthy means. (For myself right now the "anger" I feel towards this crime---that word is a gross understatement of the true nature of these crimes. But then there are ways to cope, like helping those in the same position as I am as a targeted individual e.g. this blog). And then click the next blog post marked First and Foremost Part 2 for one more video that I hope puts a smile back on your face and forget about your any anger, fear or hatred you may be feeling right now.