Reclaiming Your Power (Revised and Updated)

Contributed by: Aisha M. (aka Ati Hope)

 (revised and updated 05/16/2012)

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Tips For Rediscovering and Reclaiming Your Personal Power

My own experience with being a Targeted Individual is that these criminals will attempt to make you feel powerless and at the same time manipulate you into believing that there is nothing they cannot do. Learning about the power of manipulation and mindful, passive observance of these crimes, plus research and networking with other Targeted Individuals has helped me a lot. It completely beats that lie that they are "all powerful." meaning these criminal groups are not as powerful or "bad-ass" they try to deceive their targets into believing, no matter the technology involved in the covert harassment efforts. These criminals, masquerading as "concerned citizens" simply "looking out for their community or country," when they believe others outside of what is happening cannot see them, they want everyone involved to believe they have power and influence and that you "should" fear them.  Yet experience shows that when you step up in thought, word, and deed saying "I don't care, bring it on, give me your best shot!  See if I fall and stay down!" ---- it scares them. Apparently you are "supposed" to be afraid of them, according to their own "book." When you decide that fear is NEVER good enough and become done with being a victim, it brings fear among them---the criminal groups. Do not be fooled by their manipulation, not even by the very real, but still limited electromagnetic harassment technology for one minute (if it were all powerful, you would have been down and out a long time ago---you're stronger than they are, this tech is limited). These criminals can be beat. They are just as human as we all are and make mistakes just as we all do.Here are my observations and tips on how you can get your own personal power back in view---I say "back in view" because I want to emphasize that it never really left, these criminal groups just wanted you to forget it.

1. One very important tip I recommend: resist the urge to jump to conclusions about what perpetrators can and cannot do. A lot of manipulation and intimidation goes on, especially when it is used against the one who is targeted. So much of it is used to create this false illusion of power and the ability to infiltrate every single aspect of your life. Bold moves are very common in my experience. So is "fronting," attempting to be emotionally manipulative without being direct. E.g. In my own experience---these criminal will attempt a harassment skit that involves putting on the act of becoming angry over anything that I say or do. It is mostly to get my attention, so I attempt to ignore it. These criminals do not like this, so they try to elevate it or try a different harassment skit with it. I do not fall for it because I remember these are manipulation attempts--- we all know what would happen if you or me ever decided to go to these stalkers and "give them a piece of your/my mind"---- always remember the purpose of any harassment skit----it is meant for you to discredit yourself and nothing else. I stated in a previous post that studying manipulators and the process of manipulation has helped me a lot. So one tip here: study the process of manipulation. Some good books that help with this is called "Maximum Self-Esteem"
   The point here is that when you know the psychological games these criminals try to play on you all of the time, you cannot be played by it. This is especially helpful if they attempt to play the same psychological games over and over----these criminal groups tend to be repetitive  with harassment skits if they see you react to one of them. Knowing their games helps you see that it is garbage and you knowing how it works gives you back your own power. Remember these are human beings, not demi-gods. Below this post is a series of videos that goes into the tactics manipulators, narcissists, anti-social, sociopaths, and just plain manipulative toxic people use against those they want to use. Study it, I guarantee by the time you are even half way through the playlist at least 90% of what you listened to can apply to at least the majority of who stalks you. Pay attention to the tips especially on how you can avoid giving them any attention. One interesting tip for dealing with narcissists is to give them very little information about you, but just enough so they can feed off of their ego. For TI's I suggest being deliberately vague and generic when it comes to information that these criminals will overhear. It is a balance between developing an attitude of "no matter what you do, I will not stop fighting" and being as Jesus described in the Bible "as shrewd as snakes, and as innocent as doves." I'll come up with ways to expand on this further. There is one post that I contributed called "How To Survive Organized Stalking and Electronic Harassment." You can check that out if you'd like and see what you can use. Do what feels right for you.
2. Remembering that these criminals fear exposure is very important, especially to reclaim your life and your power. Be More than willing to record evidence on these crimes. In many ways it will decrease many aspects of the targeting, though you may see other ways they attempt to try to compensate for the "loss of power." Keep looking for ways to beat them at this and live your life in the meantime. Do it mainly because they have NO RIGHT to do these crimes against you, and you want to pursue justice. In other words, do it for you. More than anyone else, do it for you. Know who you are and know that you do not deserve this. There is no deserve-ability with these crimes (please excuse the use of all caps, I want to emphasize this because this is important for you, the Target, to remember), NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO DO THIS. IT IS COMPLETELY ILLEGAL, MORALLY WRONG, AND IT HAS TO STOP. Please remember this always, write it down, keep it where you can always see it. You do not deserve these crimes. Do not allow these criminals to manipulate you into developing anything like Stockholm Syndrome (having empathy or sympathy for abusers to the point of providing excuses for them as they continue the abuse). 
3. Hold them responsible for what they do on a daily basis. This fits right into the fact that you do not deserve these crimes.One way to do this is to call out the crimes by their actual names. One thing you will notice is these criminals will attempt to use a manipulation technique called "minimization." This means they try to downplay what they do to you (these covert murder and harassment crimes) so they can feel justified, like the condescending "oh it is not so bad." Right... do not believe that for a minute, do not even spend a minute analyzing that irrational crap or even why they are saying it (to you---directed at you means manipulation, needing you to do it too). It is a cop-out, an attempt to escape responsibility for the crimes they commit, and please know that these perpetrators will attempt to manipulate you into minimizing what they do to you (again, be on the lookout for developing Stockholm Syndrome) so,again, they can justify continuing to do it. Because "it's not so bad"---- right.... again remember that is a manipulation technique called "minimizing" and remember that the attempt to do so is a lie and manipulation so you do not hold them responsible. They will also project and scapegoat onto you as well. More attempts to escape responsibility is what these are. Let your answer be "No." Hold them responsible for what they do. Call out what they do in your mind or aloud, as they are do it, but never direct the "calling out" to them if you can help it. The reason is these criminals will attempt to deny, scapegoat, block, project, just do about anything to further justify doing this. You do not want to call out what they do directly at time, to these criminals it is just an opportunity to deny, deny, deny and hope that you will soon deny like they do, so the justification lie can continue. So as you call out what is happening, ignore any type of "input" you may receive from these criminals. These are just attempts to control your perceptions of what is happening to you by getting you to buy into lies.
   Example of "Calling it like you see it" : Any harassment skit that occurs, no matter how these criminals "dress it up" to look like an "unfortunate event", always remember to call it a staged event and nothing else. You know the difference between reality and staged events.  For example, if a group of people you know to be stalking you are going street theater, always remember it is street theater---don't call it "a group of people gossiping about stalking you." It is not gossiping. We all know what normal gossiping looks like and what you are witnessing when it is stalkers you recognize is street theater. How can you tell/remember this? The process of how street theater is planned and then done: This skit was thought out by all in the group, rehearsed, includes elements they choose through illegal surveillance of you to include in the skit, thought about how to use it some more, and these criminals in every literal sense went out of their way to ensure you and only you would be the only one in a street full of ordinary people to recognize the harassment skit taking place. Another good point is that street theater is done with the purpose of making a target aware that they are being stalked (watched). For a refresher on Staged Events and it's purpose, click here. It is also used to get you to discredit yourself. Also always remembering the purpose of all staged events (to get you to discredit yourself) can help you keep perspective on these events even as they occur.
   
   Affirm to yourself daily this or something like it: 
   
   "These are crimes, I know who I am and I know I do not deserve what is happening to me. Because I love myself, I will do my best to end these crimes for myself and for others who suffer from this. No one can stop me from fighting back, not even these criminals or these crimes."
   
   Affirm this to yourself, never direct this to any of them. One of the things i learned about manipulators is if you confront them directly, they will do all of the above, especially scapegoat and project, to attempt to put all of what they do onto you, to make you feel as if what they do is your fault. Remember that is nothing but a cheap attempt to remove responsibility from who it factually belongs to, and to get you to develop Stockholm syndrome or any sort of blaming yourself for crimes you do not deserve. Here, again, when you call out what is going on, ignore any sort of "input" from any of these criminals. Ignore it and make it easy for yourself to ignore it. Click here to see tips contributed by other victims on this. The point here is that if you hold these criminals responsible for what they do by calling it for what it is and helping yourself remember, they cannot force you to take responsibility for what they are doing to you and keep you from getting down on yourself. Speaking of getting down on yourself...
4. One way a Targeted Individual can help themselves the most is to take good care of their mind and mental health. The psychological aspect of the harassment, it has been my experience, is what the perpetrators of these crimes both look for and require psychological pain and injuries for their crimes to ultimately succeed. It is one reason the misunderstood term "mind control" is mentioned a lot with these crimes. It is the psyche, when you do not take good care of it, that can be the hardest to repair from constant harassment. One of the types of mental illness a Targeted Individual may suffer from as a result of the constant harassment is Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), as well as depression, suffer a mental breakdown, and that list can extend depending on any TI's individual case of harassment. Don't let it get to the point where you do have a nervous break down. And if you have, begin the necessary steps to begin that ascent back up to health. Learn the laws regarding patient rights if you ever find yourself in a psychiatric facility. When you are there, let someone else you know that you are there, even if that is another TI online (one you know you can trust). Never mention OS/EH in the facility, even if the harassment continues in there. Stick to symptoms you feel when talking to the doctor. Make it clear you are not suicidal and remain calm as you explain this. No hysterics whatsoever, even when you are angry. Other than this different scenario, take care of your mind. Be relentless in taking good care of yourself. I cannot speak for the experiences of other Targeted individuals on my own, but I do know that the psychological damage is what is aimed at the most in the covert harassment. I want to offer an illustration that I hope further explains my point of the psychological aspects of being a victim of a crime. (Click here to go to the"Taking Care Of Your Holistic Health" section for more of what you can do for your holistic health)
   
   
   
   An Illustration on Psychological Injury vs. Physical Injury
   
   
   Say a young man was walking home at night and on his way down a one-way street, he was ambushed by a group of people who simply wanted to play a prank on a passerby. They bound his hands, put a brown sack on his head, take him to a nearby creek, force him to stand in it and threaten they will drown him. He's standing in that rushing creek, can feel the water up to his ankles and these people are shouting all kinds of threats and taunts at him, such as "we're going to drown him, wake you back up (CPR, etc.), just to drown you all over again!" This man is scared out of his mind, so much that he is pleading for mercy, even wetting himself right now. These people just laugh and continue the taunts for a few more moments. Once they decide they have had their "fun", these people decide to finish off the prank---they push him face forward into the creek. It is only then when he falls into that creek that he can feel that water is that not only even close to being two feet deep, and to add insult to injury, his hands were not even bound all that tight. The rope is even lose. He realizes this and slides his hand out f the rope, yanks that sack off of his head, and sees enough into the night to see the pranksters running off, laughing at the joke they just pulled off. The man was never physically assaulted, hardly any of the creek water got into his mouth when they pushed him forward due to the sack over his head. Other than being wet from sitting in this creek, he is physically fine. And on his way home, he is feeling all sorts of anger, rage, shame, fear, etc. He can't press charges, he didn't get a good look at these people. He doesn't even know what race, age, how many males or females there were, nor just how many people were there. He feels helpless to do anything about what just occurred. He may never take that same route home again, even if those people were to never show up there again. It is that psychological part that gets damaged, even though his body is generally fine. The physical stress may pass long before the mental anguish he may feel will pass. Anything from deciding to carry a gun from now on to looking over his shoulder out of fear, to deciding to take self-defense classes, to keeping this absolutely secret so he cannot be made to relive what was a humiliating experience again via jokes and taunts, etc. His body is fine and he was never harmed, so what was ultimately sought after here?
   
   
   
   My experience with handling harassment and the perpetrators of OS/EH who commit these crimes against me is that many of what those who do it want is a sense of power they get from it. I can't say much for the ones who finance it, it seems their objective in the program is never what they tell those they send to stalk you is. To see more information on my opinion on this as well as some facts that may point in that direction, click here. Again as this is my opinion as to the "reasons" some perpetrators join these stalking groups and continue to commit very illegal acts, I still ask you to read up on organized stalking and electronic harassment and form your own conclusions about these crimes, especially as it informs your own experience as a Targeted Individual. This is such a "tree-and-branch crime", like these two crimes are the tree, the criminal group who finances these activities of these criminal activities are the "roots", the desired end result of the criminals who are ultimately the ones who provide funding for these crimes is the "seed", and the "branches" are the other crimes committed in the commission of organized stalking and electronic harassment/assault.  There are a few ways to see with your own experience  what perpetrators are and are not capable of doing when it comes to your own experience as a TI is through passive observance. Big caution here: If you choose to give observing what the perpetrators in your own life do a try (meaning, for example, along the lines of if a street theater skit is occurring, passively listening without internalizing what is being said as you go about doing your normal business, such as taking out the garbage. Always keep it legal. Always), I'd advise being very cautious about getting too caught-up in the staged events of these crimes, for your own sake. It is absolutely impossible to waste the time of these criminals (most get some sort of incentive to do this, such as pay), even when you do see that what these criminals are doing to you is having a reciprocal effect on them in a big negative way, (like a "live by the sword, die by the sword" effect you witness), and it does help in terms of seeing justice in small ways like this, for your own health, you do not want to dwell on what these criminals are doing to you. To borrow from what another Targeted Individual advised me concerning handling organized stalking and electronic harassment: "even warriors need a break."
   So, yes, decide that OS/EH is not going to be your whole life. Reach out. Do not cooperate with these criminals by being a victim. Network with other Targeted Individuals. (Go to the Resources For Victims page for more information). As a rule, give uninvolved people (those who are both not TI's and not criminals who commit these crimes) more credit than the perpetrators tend to. My own experience is that they will lie to uninvolved people, constantly. Let the perpetrators be the "maintainers" of these lies. Let the perpetrators be the ones to discredit themselves. You go be yourself. Decide you will not play their games anymore, and the first major step is to take good care of that mind of yours. Second best, your physical health.
   Third, I recommend, your spiritual health, whatever your belief in that higher power or lack of belief in that higher power may be. Just to note here: please be aware that if you do begin to stop playing the "games" of these criminals by refusing to be a victim anymore, these criminals will do as much as they can to deter you and it definitely means when you fight back, expect a backlash from the group (organized) stalking individuals, and that includes reaching out for help. Do not be deterred. And if you do not ignore or be healthy or do it all perfectly, no more beating yourself up for it. Become your own best cheerleader. Literally, cheer for yourself. Shrug your shoulders, think "so what? I'll just start again now" and think of being your own cheerleader as habit building. No more "crap, I failed again!" No more. Think this instead, or something like it, "I am building positive new habits and I will practice each day, and get better each day. Each time I practice these new positive habits, I become better and better at it. Practice of these habits makes a new positive practice in my life. I love my life and I love myself. Life is good." Practice building a new positive practice in your own life, which as of now includes a "can-do" attitude. What can be done? What can you do to make a positive impact for yourself and your health, as well as those you love and new and old friends? Make "Can-Do" your new practice. And keep going. Plus, ignore any "input" from the criminals who stalk you. See it as propaganda they need you to believe in order to control you with their OS/EH, and they will say and do anything to get you to become their victim. Also never mind any attempts they may make to get you to justify yourself, become defensive over what you do to fight back, etc. Again, propaganda, like a "game" you are designed to lose in their book. You will never convince them and good news, it is not your job to do so. Really good news. Let them spout their "input" (aka harassment skits) and just do what you do, no justification necessary. God bless you all. I do. And please, do the same for yourself and for others.
   
   - Aisha Madison (aka Ati Hope)
   
   
   
   
   These are the videos that can act as a general starter for learning about manipulators
   
   

Handling the Harassment

How to handle (survive) Organized Stalking and Electronic Harassment

Preface: This is the section that acts as a resource guide for victims of Organized Stalking and Electronic Harassment. By reviewing this section, whether a Targeted Individual or not, it is assumed you have at least a general grasp of these crimes and it's victims. We preface this as many of these pages may not go into heavy detail on what these crimes are as well as to why the crime victims may want to or need to try many of the resources and techniques below. It does require a general knowledge of what these crimes are. The sections above "What Is Organized Stalking?" is intended to answer many of these questions. Also see "What Is Electronic Harassment?" If you do not know about these crimes, to avoid confusion we suggest you visit these pages to get a better grasp on what these crimes are. In that understanding you may have a better grasp on what crime victims need to do for themselves until these crimes are not just more publicly known of, but these crimes cease to exist on a major scale due to large public awakening. To view how you can help with this awakening, click here for more information.

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These are some suggestions, by Targeted Individuals and our supporters, that you may have find helpful in handling both organized stalking and electronic harassment, such as how you may best deal with street theater and harassment skits, even those harassment skits that occur on V2K. As with any advice you consider, always do what feels right for you. Note: If directed energy weapons (aka nonlethal weapons) electronic harassment information is what you are looking for, click here to this site http://www.freedomfchs.com/id34.html here you will find shielding tips for these types of electronic attacks/harassment.

Tips by the following contributors: Aisha M. (to contribute your tips, visit the Contact Us page for more information)

Here are the tips and information I have used to handle organized stalking and electronic harassment/assault:

• Remember: though we are target of these crimes, we are NO ONE'S VICTIM, in terms of some pushover who will not fight back against these crimes. Don't forget that.
• Remember: Every last one of the things these criminals commits against you is absolutely ILLEGAL. Never forget this, ever, no matter how much thee criminals want you to forget this FACT. these criminals, like any other, will attempt to minimize what they are doing to you by projecting, scapegoating, manipulation, etc. just basically doing anything to not be held accountable for the crimes that they commit. That includes being held accountable by you, the Target of these crimes. So remember this and watch out for developing Stockholm Syndrome (having anykind of sympathy or empathy for your abusers and use that false empathy to condone what they do), you may see them attempt to do this as well. All of this classic manipulation is completely ingrained in so much of these crimes, as well as deception and lies. The point of the above is to attempt to manipulate you into ceasing fighting these illegal violations of your human rights.
• You know the truth, and they fear this fact. No matter how arrogant these criminals act, it is this they fear the most from you. Use the truth and spread the truth in as a coherent and professional way as you possibly can. Click here to view some tips on this.
• Start fighting back, especially in mind and in spirit. You can actually reduce many aspects of the targeting simply by letting it be known in action, thought, and deed that you will NOT take this stalking and electronic assault lying down. You will see ways to do this in a moment.
• Important handling/coping tip: Look for local targeted individual support/activism groups. If there is none in your area, start one. You need support and having others to witness for you, especially aware individuals, can reduce some of the targeting (these criminals fear exposure). One place to network with other Targeted Individuals in your area is Freedom From Covert Harassment and Surveillance, a North American Non-Profit for helping victims of Organized Stalking and Electronic Harassment. The resources of these items are below this tip sheet. For now, keep reading. 
• Learn as much as you can about these crimes. You can start on this site such as the "What Is Organized Stalking?" and "What Is Electronic Harassment?" pages. There is also a free eBook on Organized Stalking, written collaboratively by a group of targeted individuals (unaffiliated with this site), free for download and available in a couple of languages. Also there are books you can purchase. You can click the "Support Our Cause" store if you would like to buy books (proceeds act as donations that go to the Indigo Ribbon Campaign website. You can also click the links to the books and shop around for inexpensive used ones. Amazon and Betterworldbooks.com are good places for inexpensive books. Reading up on these crimes can help you better handle it and be able to keep up your holistic health, simply by knowing about what is happening to you. Resources for this will be listed below this article.
• Avoid anchoring onto any information simply because it is available information. When you research Organized Stalking and Electronic Harassment, be sure the information you see can be independently verified at a minimum by media sources, scholarly articles, etc. and learn to distinguish opinion from fact. Also consider your own experience when viewing available information to see if this resonates with you as being fact---in your own case. I state "in your own case" because it is very likely you will learn there are a number of ways an individual may be targeted, so much that you may feel like you won't be through learning of these crimes even in your own lifetime. Another reason you want to avoid anchoring is because of this fact alone. While certainty of what is going on is great, such as learning the name of these crimes, anchoring onto only one way you know of that you can be targeted can set you up for a false sense of security that can be shattered by learning, especially when these criminals try a new method of targeting you, that you were wrong or even that there is another way you can be targeted (which you didn't learn of until the perpetrators stalking you use that electronic harassment technology on you)  I know it is a great relief to learn information on these crimes and to finally know the names of the various weird, illegal, criminal activities that occur to you and around you. Just don't put yourself in a position of being painfully disappointed as it is very likely new electronic harassment will be used against you sooner or later, and learning this the hard way by anchoring can set you up for disappointment, and this will be used to further harass you. Know that these criminals will attempt to manipulate and deceive you--- a lot, like 24/7. Be secure in yourself and learn just enough of what you need to protect yourself. Tips below this article is a place to start.
• Learn about electronic harassment. Use symptoms as a "guide" to how you may experiment with shielding yourself. Because you may never know specifically what is used against you, at least in the very beginning, using symptoms and starting treating it can inadvertently lead to learning what is used against you. Also following the tips and experiences of other targeted individuals (with a grain of salt of course) who have learned what is used on them.
• Remember the true purpose of all staged events---this includes all harassment skits, all street theater, and all other staged events. This will better enable you to react calmly to any that occur.  (For a refresher of what staged events are, click here "What Is Organized Stalking?") I feel like the most important part I can't emphasis enough is when it comes to the harassment skits and street theater, those theater/skits are first and foremost for you to see and, most importantly, for the purposes of these staged events, for you to look to the unaware public as mentally unstable, potentially violent, or whatever lie that is used to gain the cooperation of others to stalk you with, to falsely "justify" the crimes and harassment under the guise of the "investigation" yourself by reacting negatively to. It acts as a form of entrapment. You know what you see, here and experience each day, but because it can be hard to prove, if you react angrily to any of the stimuli, it can look to unaware onlookers as if you may not be mentally well, though you and I know the truth and so do these criminals for that matter. These crimes count on public ignorance to continue, it will ultimately be an awakened public of enough people in large numbers that will stop these crimes. Other than this, in my opinion, there is no other purpose for all staged event than to provoke a negative reaction from you.  
• Try looking at all harassment skits, street theater and all other staged events as "shows." This is an interesting illustration taht may give you a good perspective on how to passively observe street theater that occurs against you. So the street (public areas such as your place of work if you receive workplace mobbing) is the "stage,"  you, the target, are the "only audience member." I repeat, unless an aware person who can recognize street theater is witnessing this behavior, you are the only known "audience member" of this "show" called street theater and harassment skit. Usually the public who witnesses these events and recognizes them either know what street theater is or see these strange occurrences enough (through these criminals arrogant actions for example, plus one good way to recognize street theater is the events are generally the same and repetitive), such as a neighbor in your neighborhood, to know something suspicious is occurring and may attempt to look it up. Other than this, remember that you are the only "audience member" of the "show" aka street theater and harassment skits about to take place. The stalkers of these groups assigned to do street theater are the "actors" and the "play" is the street theater harassment skits that take place.
  Now this "show" takes place in two "parts." However your primary (and only necessary) goal is to ensure part two of the "show" never occurs. The first part of the "show" is the harassment skits these stalkers use against you, and this can be coupled with electronic harassment. Remember that unless an aware member of the public knows what street theater is and can recognize it, this first "act" of the "show" aka harassment skit is meant for you to see alone and, most importantly for these criminals, for you to react negatively to. Below we will include tips on how to handle this "stage" of the "show" that is meant for you to see. The way harassment skit shows work is though the use of NLP techniques as well as other sensitization techniques. For a quick refresher on what these are in terms of harassment skits and street theater, click here. Remembering these facts and information can leave you more prepared for any street theater and harassment skits that occur.
  Now, more information on part two of the "show" aka the main goal of the street theater and harassment skits on the part of the criminals of these crimes that occur: The second part of the "show" of these staged events is meant for both the perpetrators (as goal and as part of the power-hungry ego-centered satisfaction they gain from doing this acts) and, most importantly to these criminal groups, for the unaware public. The second part of the "show" always requires the participation of the "only audience member" aka you, the Targeted Individual. For the second part of the "show" to begin, you are needed by these criminals to react negatively to these "seemingly unfortunate events" (aka "the normal breaks of life" --- for a refresher on the deceptive nature/revenge-driven nature of staged events, click here) so that attention of the unaware public is turned on to the "show." Now the curtain "draws," and when they are turned onto the "show" taking place, you are no longer the "only audience member" but are now the unwilling "star" of this "show." So now the "spotlight" is turned on you, the targeted individual, by these criminals actions and your negative reaction, and the public, by your negative reaction, now become "audience members of the show." The minute this happens, you reacting negatively to these harassment skits, the main event of the "show" is triggered. These criminals use this "spotlight" you, the targeted individual, during and well after your negative reaction [acting as "false evidence" of their false assertions of you] in order to manipulate unaware witnesses to the staged event into becoming complicit and cooperating in furthering these crimes so that they may participate in more "shows" in the future. "Part two" of the "shows" primarily purpose, when it comes to manipulation of the public, is to attempt to steer and control the viewpoint of any witnesses to the incident towards what these criminals want these witnesses to believe. Color their perception of what just took place and using the event to gain their cooperation by further "coloring" the event with a well-dressed lie, aka that you are what they purport you to be. These perpetrators know it is a lie and so do you, however to gain the false justification for these crimes, they need you to react to their stimuli so they can do this very thing---color the public's perception of what they are doing and to further cover the crimes that are taking place by masquerading as some sort of "community watch group" or group of "concerned citizens." Realize that some people are naive in that they do not believe a stranger would just come up to another stranger and simply lie to them, especially if the  manipulator/criminal comes off as "friendly," "knowledgeable" [deception] about the incident [a prepared lie to tell the public is what this is], attempts to masquerade as a "concerned citizen" or other authority figure) but who really needs any particular reason to lie other than to cover another lie? What better time to "recruit" people with staged lies than after a victim of these crimes reacts with justifiable anger to a harassment skit that most people do not recognize for the criminal stalking and harassment that it is?
  Remember your main goal when faced with any staged event is to never become the unwilling participant in "part two of the show." What you have to remember is that you know the truth. These criminals fear this and need you to discredit yourself in order to hide their lies. Also good to remember is that rumors and lies need maintenance. Let these perps scramble to maintain their own lies (and believe me they do when you give them nothing) by giving them nothing, no matter how hard they try to push you. All the public has is their very word, the lies that are told about you. This means having at least a little faith in people and giving them more credit than these criminals do (those who stalk me believe people are dumber than they believe I am---and they really believe I was born yesterday each day they wake up, doing the same tired harassment skits over and over again, and yet expect me to buy it every single time--- and give them very little credit to smell when a lie doesn't add up to their own experience of both you and what's going on). You know the truth, what you have to lose is what makes you you, the very thing that separates you from these criminals---you actually have your humanity. Give them nothing. Let your revenge be that not only are you going to be happy to the best of your ability regardless, but wake up the next day knowing that at least today and definitely not tomorrow, you did not become them by giving them exactly what they want. At least remember that many of them get a sick pleasure at watching you get angry, some of them because they believe they are getting one step closer to getting you to discredit yourself. Let that arrogance be in vain by giving them nothing and watch them scramble to get you to react to something. Make them have to work for their "jobs" and yet never get what they want---you to discredit yourself. Be you and screw these crooks. Be happy to the best of your ability and let them stew in their own self-created hatred. Hope this helps.
• Write this one down as well, you will need to memorize it every time you are tempted to react to a street theater skit: The perpetrators do not get what they want from you if you do not react to the harassment skits or the street theater, even if they use electronic harassment in conjunction with staged events. To the best of your ability, do not react to them. Don't beat yourself up if you need to have a quiet vent moment (make sure you are alone) and simply go back to ignoring them. Also give yourself a break if you do not handle everything "like an adult." Starve them for information, because one thing these criminals are is repetitive, and if they see you react to a harassment skit, they will repeat it. Encourage yourself to ignore it and keep going. There are ways to keep yourself ignore these harassment skits. You will see some in a moment.
• As a rule, give the unaware public more credit than the perpetrators of these two crimes do. Let the perpetrators be the ones to discredit themselves. You be yourself and be healthy. And trust that what you know to be the truth is leaking out, however slowly, as we speak. And the public can wake up to this, one person at a time, however seemingly slowly. To illustrate, here is a scenario: This one I hope helps you do two things, one is to consider, if your faith in humanity has been little damaged, to give them another shot on your part despite how you feel about people in general due to the harassment, and two, to illustrate what can possibly happen over time if you do not react to negative stimuli just by being yourself, when looked at from the perspective of the uninvolved person (i.e. what is spoken of you does not match-up to what you actually are) please give the following scenario some thought:

"What is wrong with this picture?"
How a member of the public may awaken to Organized Stalking and Electronic Harassment:

Imagine that you are a stranger, no one in particular who is just living your average ordinary life. You're standing outside by your car when a person you only vaguely remember comes up to you and introduces themselves. After about five minutes of lite conversation, this person switches "gears" and points out to you someone they identify as a "person of interest" suspected of a crime, e.g. drug trafficking. Giving you their word and not much else to back it up other than their word, they tell you that this person is dangerous when provoked however getting them to react to being provoked may be the only way to "bust" this person for the drug trafficking since they are hiding it so well. This stranger tells you they need your help and ask you to do things such as shout loudly on your phone for example whenever you see this person (pretending as if you are on the phone of course) see if they react. Overtime the negative stimuli will wear this person down, especially if you as well as other people of the community, this person explains to you, do this repeatedly whenever you see this person outside. This person will be sensitized to the negative stimuli and over time will become angry due to it. You will be a witness to their violent behavior and this way, we (you, this stranger and whomever group he/she represents) can capture this criminal and make this neighborhood safe again. And it is this word, the word of this complete stranger this concerned citizen, you go by. After all, why would a stranger lie about something as serious as drug trafficking? So you decide to do that one suggestion whenever you are outside and you see this "person of interest" suspected of drug trafficking.Now imagine interacting with this person on a regular basis, mostly by doing what you were advised to do by this stranger, whom you see only every now and again, and you do as you are advised to do to get this person to react negatively to you. Lets say over the course of a year, you have been doing this consistently, yet you haven't seen any sign of drug trafficking. You haven't seen any sign of violence in this individual as well. The most you see is this person looking startled if you shout on your phone, and maybe a little annoyed. This person even came up to you once and politely asks you to please keep it down, and walks away. No violence, no negative reaction. Now the months go by and the more you are around this person from time-to-time, the more something doesn't quite add up. The perpetrator told you that this person is a suspect of drug trafficking and this is how this person can incriminate themselves because they are hiding the crime so well and only by concerned citizens provoking them into a reaction can evidence surface. Something inflammatory will fall out of the suspects mouth and, with all the witnesses to confirm it, the suspect can be put away, or at least that is what the concerned citizen who approached you in the first place told you. And this concerned citizen comes back to you from time-to-time to let you know about other "information" they have learned about the suspect, such as this person is now suspected of prostitution, this person also has a history of driving under the influence, and we need to get this dangerous "predator" off of the street and out of our neighborhood by forcing them to incriminate themselves. You reluctantly agree to continue to help, even though something is still not adding up.
It's now been a little over year and a half and you haven't seen a thing to matchup to what you were told of the suspected criminal. You have seen no sign of prostitution, no sign of drug trafficking, and if you did not know any better the only thing you see of this person is that they seem polite, and the only thing you see is a look of annoyance on their face when you shout into your phone as you had been directed. Something is now nagging you. You have been told that this person is under investigation for a suspected crime, but you haven't seen done once since the moment you have been told this. In fact you realize the only thing you have been presented with as "evidence" of the suspected crimes is the word of this concerned citizen. You've even seen instances of the exact opposite of what this concerned citizen has told you about this person, e.g. the drug trafficking suspect is actually, according to a friend who you know at the blood bank, a regular donor of blood. You're own knowledge of this blood donor process tells you no blood bank alive would ever take blood from a person with drugs in their system. So now you're wondering, "what's wrong with this picture?" More time goes by, let's say another year, and you still haven't seen this person do or act in anyway as the concerned citizen says they would. You now hardly see this concerned citizen but sporadically and even you are a little tired of the shouting street theater you have been advised to do with your phone in order to provoke a reaction from this still, after three years, a person "suspected" of drug trafficking and prostitution and, still, is under investigation for both, neither of which you, after being a neighbor to this person for at least three years, have ever seen. You begin to compare your three years of experience with this individual with what was told to you by the concerned citizen. Three years of investigation, no violent reaction, and your own eyes and ears, as well as your friend who works at the blood bank gives you a hard to ignore feeling that can be best characterized as this line: "Something is wrong with this picture."







Here are links to stories by Targeted Individuals who have had a similar experience to the illustrations above.
(If you would like to contribute your own encounter of a member of the public awakening to this, click here to submit it)

Now how to combat harassment skits and all staged events

http://gangstalkingworld.com/Media/2010/07/freedatbirth/

• How to recognize if street theater is taking place (to combat paranoia). If a person you have identified, though observing their repeat participation in these crimes, is speaking with another individual in front of you whom you may or may not know, and street theater is going on, know that generally only one of two things can be happening at this time only:
  (a) The perpetrator is speaking with another perpetrator of these crimes committed against you, the Targeted Individual, in front of you for the purpose of street theater. You will not recognize each person that participates in street theater, but remember that these are crimes that are taking place, so they do not deserve your attention. Ignore it.
  (b) If a perpetrator known to you is talking to another person who you may or may is uninvolved (reminder time: as a rule, give people more credit than your perpetrators do), remember that the perpetrator has to tell this person a (likely memorized, well prepared) lie to convince them to participate in the covert harassment of you. Remember, like the illustration above, this uninvolved stranger, if they believe this perpetrator, will have to go on the perpetrators word that these "crimes' you are suspected of doing are, in-fact, real.  
• Now how to deal with it: Make it easy for yourself to ignore it, such as putting on sunglasses when you go outside, put on a music player when you go outside, even if you wear glasses (I am nearsighted, with astigmatism), take off your glasses, leave on your mp3 player, and take advantage of this (as long as you can still safely see) eyesight "problems" of yours as a way to ignore street theater. These are good tips that you can use when you are out and about on your own. If you park your car in the garage, make sure you are in your car before you open the garage door. Roll up your windows, turn on your air (if only for a moment), turn up your music, pull out of your garage and go on about your day. Ignore all street theater that takes place. Again make it easy for yourself to do this. Get creative. If you take the bus to work, make sure your mp3 player is charged. Keep your headset where you can find them and always charge your mp3 player over night. Also remember that your phone can act as a mp3 player if you need it to. Click here to see information on how you can do this. Now, if you are with company, focus your attention on this person. Remember street theater and harassment skits are staged events that need you to react negatively to them to discredit yourself. Never allow entrapment to occur. Focus your attention on who you are with. They deserve your attention, not these criminals. See all attempts to provoke you as just fake acts that are geared toward the main goal of the street theater, a negative reaction. Remember these are crimes and see these attempts to provoke you as nothing more than attempt to use you to hide these crimes behind well-dressed lies. Another good thing to remember: commonsense when it comes to these crimes here asks you: "what sense would it make for two perpetrators to repeat to each other what it is they have been observing you doing when both are involved in the criminal activity of these two crimes?" The answer: "It is street theater. That answer is my signal to ignore it." Remember the purpose of street theater, and this will prevent and/or destroy any paranoia you have developed over this covert crimes over time as you make it a habit to "call it like you see it" mentally. 
• Learn how to record evidence. These criminals do not like exposure and being more than willing to record evidence of these crimes and keeping records of these crimes can and will reduce the targeting to a certain extent. In my own experience i see a reduction in street theater because i made it clear if these criminals give me a way to identify them, I will take it. This means their face, the plates of their car, make, model number, their own physical description, where they live, etc. Especially in the case of when (not "if" but when, no matter how slowly) legal action begins, you will need this information to hold these criminals accountable for what they do to you. Always follow the laws within your own state when it comes to recording evidence. One rule of thumb to follow and remember is that of "reasonable expectation of privacy" such as with public areas, the main "stage" of all staged events, these criminals have NO REASONABLE EXPECTATION OF PRIVACY. Remember this, they may be a little more reluctant to do street theater if you capture evidence of the crimes occurring. For a resource guide on how to look up the laws in your own state, click here (external site).
  For a good general guide to gathering evidence geared towards targeted individuals, click here to download a free eBook. The tips start on page 41. ***Note: Current translation available is English. We will put a copy on this site soon for translation.***
• With evidence, see if you can get the perpetrators name and address. This can go a long way if you plan to sue any of these criminals, or even issue a "Cease and Disist" court order. See below for more information.
• Be unshakeable in your unwillingness to be anybody's victim, YOU ARE NO ONE'S VICTIM. Excuse the use of all caps, but this is so important. While it has been my experience that the group stalkers within my own life do get both a power trip from committing these crimes and a very disturbing enjoyment from both the electronic harassment as well as the organized stalking, nothing scares these criminals more than a targeted individual who will not give up. Never confuse fear with being a coward. Know that fear is not the precursor to not acting, no matter what these criminals may attempt to manipulate you into believing. Let fear never be good enough to stop you from living your life and fighting back. Be assertive in your actions and in your words and mind. Overtime, you begin to lose your fear of these criminals, so don't rush yourself. Just decide to become "done" with these evil acts and fight back no matter what. Completely refuse to play this "game" the perpetrators of these crimes want you to play. Especially as you make it harder for these criminals to commit these crimes without leaving behind evidence (something they are terrified of) they may try harder to get your attention by escalating the harassment in different ways, but I believe you will feel more empowered just by refusing to participate in the harassment by saying "no" though thought, word, and deed to willfully being a victim of the covert harassment. Do not be fooled. Know how to call street theater and harassment skits for what they are. Never believe they are anything else than what they are. 
• Learn about manipulation. There is sooo much lying and manipulation that goes on, I feel it is very important to learn about it. You will begin to notice a lot of it when it comes to the electronic harassment and with the organized stalking. Especially with attempting to manipulate you emotionally, since this is used a lot to get you to discredit yourself in public. Just laugh it off. Remember that all of these harassment skits and attempts to manipulate you are just cheap attempts to get your mind off of the fact that these are crimes taking place, and never focus on the content of what they are saying, especially if it is a staged event. Here is a "default" position to remember: these are crimes taking place, so unless these criminals want to give you evidence by doing these crimes in your face, they do not deserve your attention. Remember the tips above and just ignore then to the best of your ability. You gathering evidence will be the only time you even acknowledge they are even there. Below this section is a link to a series of videos to get you started on how to recognize manipulation. Though not geared towards targeted individuals, it is a great way to learn about manipulation.
• Take self-defense classes. It is one way to empower yourself more, especially mentally and physically. In many ways it can reduce your targeting to a certain extent (these criminals will know if you buy a gun or not) and they may keep their distance, especially if you have a permit to carry a gun. Buy a gun, or at a minimum a gun permit. Learn how to shoot a gun from a professional instructor, and how to defend yourselves. For more information on this, see the "More Information" section below.
• How to tell "wolves" from "sheep": To quote from the bible, here is another helpful mantra to memorize that can help you how to tell the sheep from the wolves (or in this case, as it has helped for me, how to tell the difference between someone who comes to you with words that state one thing but their actions [the "fruits"] bring another. It may definitely help you see through manipulation attempts, that is for sure).
  
  "Watch out for false prophets. They come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ferocious wolves.By their fruit you will recognize them. Do people pick grapes from thornbushes, or figs from thistles? Likewise, every good tree bears good fruit but a bad tree bears bad fruit. A good tree cannot bear bad fruit and a bad tree cannot bear good fruit. Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. Thus, by their fruit, your will recognize them." 
  - Matt 7:15-20 NIV

Thanks for listening, I hope this helped.

- Aisha M.

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More information pertaining to the above:

• For networking opportunities and how to start your own Targeted Individual support group/activism group, click here.
• To contact Freedom From Covert Harassment and Surveillance, click here.
• For a free *.pdf of incident logs and journal sheets for writing down occurrences, click here *pdf or  for a*.doc (Word or OpenOffice). 
• For more tips on how to reduce the targeting, click here to go back to the "Resources For Victims" page.
• Videos that help you learn about manipulation. (YouTube Playlist)
• Check out your local YMCA (if you live in the United States) for information on self-defense classes. http://www.ymca.net/ Also your local community recreational centers, church congregations, Karate Dojo, Taekwondo Dojo, or even your own local fitness center may offer self-defense classes at good prices. Take a buddy with you (can be a potential sparring partner, plus taking someone with you can keep the street theater down some --- perpetrators of these crimes do not like exposure and do not want to leave witnesses of their criminal acts to vouch for you) and learn together. Check your local community listings, such as the Yellow Pages for listings or Google it on the internet Keyword search: fill-in-city-name + self-defense classes. E.g. Google: "Seattle Washington Self-Defense Classes."
• For more information on Cease and Desist Orders, click here at http://www.lawdepot.com/contracts/cease-and-desist-letter/?a=t& for a template for one. Be sure to check the laws in your state for more information on this. To look up information on perpetrators names and addresses for this purpose, try the whitepages.com  - If you can hand deliver it to their address, use certified mail (with signature required for recipient, per recipient)